How is your site differed from the numerous other dating and introduction sites of the Internet? Even with constant personal contact, lasting many years, people still cannot accurately forecast how compatible they will be in their future family life. Now and then, they understand that they are not the best matched pair only after the marriage ends. What s there too be said about casual acquaintances!
What you do see on the majority of dating sites? There, photographs, which have been worked on by professional stylists and artists; data about the height, age and profession make up the usual basics. At best a form with several questions, which reflects your enthusiasm for, or relation with domestic animals is also offered to you. What kind of an idea about a man or a woman can be formed based on such scant information? here Imagination begins to work, adding to the pictures a "seasoning" derived from own expectations and fantasies.
After seeing on the screen a long-legged tall blond, a man projects on the image all the virtues and imagines, how good it will be for him to live together with her. After exchanging several letters, he will travel for thousands of kilometres and, after spending copious amounts of time and money, he understands his error in several minutes. But this is still not the worst of it. The worst case if he understands that he was mistaken only after the wedding.
In order to avoid similar errors or, at least, to reduce their probability to a minimum, on this site we approached a question of matching professionally using a unique test designed and tested over years of consulting people just like you. From times immemorial people attempted to find the "formula of love". Ancient priests, philosophers, and astrologers worked on the problem of matchmaking compatibility. Now the issue is being dealt with by psychologists, sexologists and physiologists. The uniqueness of our test is in the fact that it was developed over more than ten years, and not by the laboratory theorists, but on the basis of the analysis of many of thousands real human
lives.
In principle I'm not against marriage, but to everything its time. I had proposed to
girls to simply meet, and spend interesting time together, but they reject this offer. Why? Girls, who register with marriage agencies and place their profiles on the introduction sites, have a very specific goal.
They want to create a family. Therefore they don.t desire to waste time on the "unimportant" relationships.
Time works against women in a much harsher way than against the men. with age a Man has accumulated experience, wisdom,
and has created for himself a stable material position and social status. And if in the process of life he has managed to
retain his reserve of vital energy, then his attractiveness for women and chances to create a family are not reduced in the
slightest. Moreover, his range of selection only increases with the years. A solidly established man of middle
age can be married to both their contemporary and a young woman who may be his daughter's age.
For women everything is opposite. Even if she has succeeded in preserving health and attractiveness, her rating and
ability to be selective falls sharply with the years. In the society it is generally not accepted for women to be married
to men older then her. Financially secure men of middle age usually prefer younger women. All that remains for her
choose from are either feeble old men or men who have failed to succeed in life. With such a "selection" many women who
have missed their time choose to remain in solitude.
It goes without saying; there are numerous young women and women of any age, who simply desire to be entertained.
Particularly if at someone else's expense. However, it's better to search for them not on the introduction sites,
but elsewhere.
My friends surf through all the dating sites, attempting to find girls considerably younger then themselves, however I'm more attracted to my contemporaries. Friends say that I simply fear not managing with a young wife, but this is not true. How do I explain this to them? Let us begin with the fact that you have the right to your own selection and you are not obligated to justify it even to the closest friends. Many problems arise because now and then we are subjected to the public opinion in resolution of strictly personal and intimate questions.The preference for women of specific age as candidates for a wife is guided not only by aesthetic and sexual tastes, but also by your ideas about your role in the family relationship.
Many men desire to be unconditional leaders in the family. They are ready to make all decisions individually and take full weight of responsibility upon themselves. In our century of democracy and equality of sexual rights an age difference tends to give a certain shape to relationship. It's easier for a mature man to affirm his leadership position to a much younger woman.However, there are men who see marriage as an equal partnership. For them the wife is first of all a close and reliable friend and advocate. They prefer to discuss all debatable questions and problems together, and to make joint decisions. Such relationships are more easily built with a woman of an age approximately identical to yourself.
Recently I wrote a letter to a young woman. Almost a month passed, but I still did not
get an answer. Had it been myself, even if I did not want to continue our acquaintance, I would have
nevertheless answered, honestly telling her about how I felt. Maybe something had happened to her?
Or I did write something that that she did not find worthy of even refusing a reply to me? We are used to evaluating others according to our own form and substance, assuming that in the analogous
situations all must feel the same as we, and to behave just as we do. Unfortunately, this is usually
not true. Otherwise the problems of compatability and mutual understanding would never appear, there
would be no necessity for psychological tests, and any couple would be ideal.
A person, who is responsible, conscientious, and incapable of leaving someone's letter without an
answer, can't imagine that a woman could just simply forget to answer. Especially, if she receives
many letters or is not very serious about the questions of meeting someone. Possibly, she created her
profile simply for the entertainment value and forgot about it the next day. Such women can be "assessed"
in to our test under the section LOW EARTH.
Her irresponsibility does not necessarily mean that she is not at all capable of building family
relations. She can get along with a man very well, particularly one who more easily relates to the
female "forgetfulness", without a tendency to portray similar situations in dark colors and without
making oneself feel guilty of the most terrible sins.
However the reason for her silence can be much simpler, and you worry completely in vain. The fact
is that in Russia computers are not yet present in every apartment, and far from all girls can access
the electronic mail as regularly and easily as telephones numbers. Possibly, the woman you wrote to is
simply away elsewhere at the time, and she had not seen your letter and therefore has no idea how to
reply to you.
It is for this reason that our service for introductions has available not only a virtual site, but
also a real marriage agency complete with its office and technical support base. Our entire staff
works like professionals you would expect in circumstances such as these. Talk with us, and possibly
the situation will be resolved by itself.
I have just found out that a young woman with whom I had been corresponding also writes
to other men. When I wrote to her questioning this behavior, she replied that she probably wasn't the
only woman I wrote to either. It would seem the situation is trivial. Acquaintance via correspondence doesn't obligate either man
or woman to anything. After noting someone as a possible candidate, each has the right to continue searching. At this stage they are both equaly placed.
However the situation changes after both have established a definite agreement about a meeting. After
all, it's a man not a woman who expends his personal time and money on the trip. clearly he does not
want, after arriving in the strange country, to find himself in a queue.
Young women, which continue to correspond with several men even after they agree about meeting with a
specific man, most likely don't intend to either relocate anywhere or to marry. Most likely, they
simply want to be entertained at someone else's expense.
I heard that majority of men prefer blonds. However I also heard that brunettes are
more spirited. Could you tell me if this is true? Men's preference for blonds in essence originated in fashion trend that existed half a century ago.
The means The image Merlin Monroe - the best known sex symbol in America - unsettles fantasies of men from
different generations even until now. Many of them do not even suspect that the real Merlin Norma was
dark-haired and somewhat distant woman, who had nothing in common with appetizing and inviting heroines
she portrayed.
There are relatively few blonds in the world. Dark hair provides better protection from the sun, therefore
people who originate in the tropical latitudes, are usually dark brown or dark-haired persons. In spite
of the widespread opinion, native northerners can also have dark hair, since hair color in these latitudes has no practical value. Furthermore, dark gene is usually dominant, and in a couple where one has dark, and another light hair, children will usually be born dark-haired.
All this makes natural blondes a certain "rarity". if a man relates to the woman only as to a rare
object of prestige, capable of enhancing his image, then he will undoubtedly prefer a blond.
From the above it is clear that the blonds represent a narrow genetic segment of the population and
their blood contains many related genes. This can become a reason for weak vitality. Women with the
darker color hair are usually more healthy, hardy, and, as a result, are more spirited. However in
case of each individual's temperament - characteristics are strictly confined to that person.
